Tuesday, December 31, 2013


Not sure if my absence has been noticed, but i felt that i needed to come back to write a post for the last day of this topsy turvy year. 

My previous post mentioned looking forward to a kinky weekend in Birmingham. Sadly that didn't happen as i got ill :-( Such a shame as we were so keen to see good friends again. But hey, these things happen. 

You may have noted (or not) there's been a lack of posts here over the past year. And yes, it's mostly because there has been a shift in our kinky lifestyle where vanilla life has taken over the reins. For me, i've gone with the flow - the need to feel subbie, or even sexy, hasn't been strong. i think that for SG it's something He has coped with and hasn't tried to turn things around, but i do think He still has His urges at times, but i just hope He doesn't feel too frustrated. 

i should mention that recently SG asked me to assist Him in some straitjacket and hood time as He had the urge to let go and i was happy to oblige. It felt good to be in control, if only for a couple of hours.

i know that it's something that we need to work on and we do talk about it. The fear of pushing it is there too and i really want it to be a natural phase that returns when we are ready. Does that make any sense? i hope so. 

So as this year draws to a close, i want to look forward to a new year, full of new experiences, be they vanilla or kink (and i do have a new catsuit to show off). 

And anyway, the most important thing is that we still have each other. 

So i wish you (if anyone is still reading me) a very happy 2014. May it bring you everything you wish for... and more. 

Happy New Year!


Anonymous said...

Happy new year gorgeous girl xx

Ava Grace said...

Happy new year!! Everything you say makes sense and if it's what you desire I hope you find your subbie self again this year ava x

Geetwo said...

Happy New Year to you both and hope you regain your enthusiasm for play soon.

1manview said...

Wishing you and yours a happy new year..

peace and love