Tuesday, December 31, 2013


Not sure if my absence has been noticed, but i felt that i needed to come back to write a post for the last day of this topsy turvy year. 

My previous post mentioned looking forward to a kinky weekend in Birmingham. Sadly that didn't happen as i got ill :-( Such a shame as we were so keen to see good friends again. But hey, these things happen. 

You may have noted (or not) there's been a lack of posts here over the past year. And yes, it's mostly because there has been a shift in our kinky lifestyle where vanilla life has taken over the reins. For me, i've gone with the flow - the need to feel subbie, or even sexy, hasn't been strong. i think that for SG it's something He has coped with and hasn't tried to turn things around, but i do think He still has His urges at times, but i just hope He doesn't feel too frustrated. 

i should mention that recently SG asked me to assist Him in some straitjacket and hood time as He had the urge to let go and i was happy to oblige. It felt good to be in control, if only for a couple of hours.

i know that it's something that we need to work on and we do talk about it. The fear of pushing it is there too and i really want it to be a natural phase that returns when we are ready. Does that make any sense? i hope so. 

So as this year draws to a close, i want to look forward to a new year, full of new experiences, be they vanilla or kink (and i do have a new catsuit to show off). 

And anyway, the most important thing is that we still have each other. 

So i wish you (if anyone is still reading me) a very happy 2014. May it bring you everything you wish for... and more. 

Happy New Year!