Tuesday, February 22, 2011

e[lust] 23

i submitted... ;-) my entry is in Kink and Fetish - Steeling The Show.

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~ This Weeks Top Three Posts ~

Roadmaps of Consent - I fucking love consent. I love safewords. I can be much more cruel, and push much harder, if I trust my partner to tell me when I go too far.

Staying Safe - One cock, from one man, missing one condom, ultimately led to my brothers death. And that sucks.

Flying the Friendly Skies - One button on her sweater was undone, there was a rip in her hose, scratches on her boots, and her hair was carelessly pinned back with stray wisps of hair escaping. There was a curious flavor of soiling about her, something a bit dirty and unkempt.

~ Featured Post (Lilly's Pick) ~

Labels and my thoughts... - In the past year and a half I have gone from being someone that was lost, without identity that fit, rattling around inside myself to someone that has names for what they are.

~ e[lust] Editress: Dangerous Lilly

See also: Pleasurists #116 and #117 for all your sex toy review needs

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Kink & Fetish

5 Kinky Toys from the Dollar Store

Alive in my Skin


Digitalized for Posterity



He ripped a string of orgasms from me, and then ramped it up

Manual Dexterity

Nadia's Surprise

Orgasms, Spoons Rests, and Fishnets! (The Play Party)

Punishment, humiliation and bondage

Schoolgirl in Saturday Detention

Steeling The Show

Water torture

Erotic Writing

A Little Night Music

Afternoon darkness

Crisp White Linens

dancing with (& then kinkily fucking) the dj

In the Mirror


Morning Sex

My First Anal Sex

September 1935


Schoolgirl Part 1

Teenage Bukkake


You're Gonna Keep My Soul

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

A Doggie Kind of Love

Ashamed?! Are You Kidding Me?

Giggles, Groans and Panting

I Can Imagine How You Feel

Sex As Love

6 Moves Men Need to Be Sex Gods in the Bedroom

Terminology Fundamentalism

The COME HITHER QUIVER -or- How To Squirt

This Love

What I Want

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Kink Network Announces the Opening of Their Adult Blog Host Kinky-Blogging.com

Porn, degradation, and Khan Tusion

Women With Two Vaginas

Kink, virginity and big-tittied whores

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Vanilla Times

Whilst i'm on the subject of our anniversary, here's another post. This time in our vanilla world.

i just happened to mention to my most favourite waiter, in our much-favoured restaurant, that it was our third anniversary. Not only did we get a free glass of champagne, we got this at the end of our fabulous meal:

A mixture of mini vanilla sponges and chocolate brownies... so it's not all about the kink!

Monday, February 14, 2011

Valentine... Sexy Time

Over three years together, we are still as horny and kinky (if not more so) than ever!

Here's a first peek at my new Westward Bound goodies. And it feels so sexy on!

i love You, my Valentine.

Friday, February 11, 2011

Steeling The Show

It's been a number of months since i received my steel collar and, before that, i didn't know how it would make me feel or whether i'd get on with it. So here's an update for you.

i'd say that it's been a love-hate relationship. There are days where it seems to lay heavy against my collar bone. i know it's not the wrong size, it fits really neatly, but there are days when i am really conscious of it. Not that i shouldn't be, as it's a symbol of my Master's ownership, so i know i should be constantly aware of it. But on other days, it's a different story. i can almost not feel it, but this doesn't change its meaning to me. And quite rightly so.

And i have days where i love it - what it means to both of us. It makes me feel close to SG. A reminder of our bond when we are doing vanilla things, and especially when we are not together (which isn't very often).

The other thing is that it's had its fair share of attention with questions asked like: 'What an unusual necklace', 'how does it do up?' So, some quick thinking has been needed.

i remember the first time i wore it at work with a low cut top. i'd been wearing it under roll neck jumpers for the first few days, to get used to wearing it all day, as i was extremely conscious of others seeing it. But at the same time, i wanted to show it off. It was a real mix of feelings. But it was only right to be asked about it. It also made me wonder if other kinky people would know what i was by seeing it and give me that knowing look.

So it's been on 24/7 for the last few months which has been really good. i've had to ask SG to remove it for my physio appointments. He allows me to take it off, if needs be, but i'm now used to it staying on for longer periods.

i know that our D/s relationship doesn't work on a 24/7 level and we are both happy with that. We don't live together... yet, but we are working to change that. For now, my collar serves to remind me who i belong to and that keeps me smiling inside.

Wednesday, February 09, 2011

Woman In Chains

i just listened to the Tears for Fears song 'Woman In Chains' and it gave me inspiration to post this photo. i love the sepia tone and the look of the place she's being held in.

It also serves as a reminder of how i slept last night - in my cuffs in SG's bed. It concluded a punishment i received, the first being a bottom caning, as i knelt in front of the sofa with my bare skin exposed and my wrist cuffs attached to my ankles.

my crime? i had been horny that morning and played without asking for permission. Not the done thing and i had broken the rules. Of course, i had to confess and knew SG would see to it. His pup had done wrong and He had to put her back in line... via His unforgiving cane.

i woke to find a horseshoe shaped bruise on my right cheek, which looks real cute.

SG now expects a marked improvement.

Thursday, February 03, 2011

HNT - Secure

A couple of posts ago, i mentioned sharing a photo from my punishment caning for ripping my PVC outfit. SG took it afterwards - no staging, just as i was. i thought it would work really well as a HNT, so here it is:

It's always good to feel secure.

Happy HNT!