It's no secret from reading my blog, i am searching for my D/s soulmate. It's been a couple of months since any D/s interaction and i do miss it, but aside from that, i miss the whole relationship thing - the intimacy, the romance and the "being there" for someone. i thought i had found something special, not so long ago, but it just wasn't meant to be. i don't think i'm asking for the world in my search. i am trying to narrow down the fundamentals to my quest, so here's my list (so far!):
Brown eyes (well no... blue, green, hazel, or whatever would be just fine)
6ft+ tall (actually the same height is great... i'm 5ft 8)
Good build (OK... just not too overweight!)
Takes charge, i mean really takes control, who knows their own mind and enjoys their Dominance without being egotistical about it, as well as knowing that it's not something to play at.
Interlinks their vanilla world with D/s, who knows that their underlying role is as a Dominant, blending it into their day to day life. Able to make me feel very protected, supported and guided, when needed.
Mentally strong, but also able to show their human side. Have a great understanding of emotions and know when to show theirs, without losing face or feeling that it might be seen as a weakness. We should never forget that we are all human.
Well anything D/s, but especially bondage (that includes chains!), sensory deprivation, humiliation, pain play (although i am still working out my threshold which was extensively stretched (read here), enjoys roleplaying and owns a cage or is interested in getting one... (a huge curiosity of mine!).
Am i being too expectant.... too demanding? i'd like to think not, but i do feel like i'm in the wilderness at the moment. i know i am in a strong position (i'd like to think) and have so much to give. Maybe i'm too picky, but i'm also a submissive searching for her D/s soulmate...